A wedding is for the bride, we know that. The bride makes the majority of the decisions and plans. The dress, the cake, the menu. You might have had some input when it came to the photographers, and the church may have been a family church with a family minister, negating the need for a decision. The colour of the flowers was her choice, and you possibly stood your ground on the cummerbund and its colour. And when she said she wanted you both to write your wedding vows, you initially thought it was a great idea.

Then you really thought about it. Really. And although you know you love each other, and yes, you do want to spend the rest of your lives with each other, you also realise you have no idea how to put that into words. Perhaps English was never your strong suit at school. Poetry was for sappy love-addled geeks. But this person you'll be standing next to is probably the first you used those three little words with. How do you consolidate that into a speech which will need to be read or rehearsed? How do you express all you feel about her to a room full of spectators?

Don't panic, we'll take you step-by-step through the process of writing your own vows; from something basic and heartfelt to an in-depth expression of your emotions. We will help you put it all into words. It's a simple matter of completing our questionnaire, and we'll extract what it is you want to say. Our wedding vow writing service starts from £25, and will ensure you have the perfect vow.

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