A wedding is for the bride, we know that. The bride makes the majority of the decisions and plans. The dress, the cake, the menu. The groom might have had some input when it came to the photographers, and the church may have been a family church with a family minister, negating the need for a decision. The colour of the flowers was the bride's choice, and the groom possibly stood his ground on the cummerbund and its colour. And when she said she wanted them both to write their wedding vows, they initially thought it was a great idea.

Then they really thought about it. Really. And although they know they love each other, and yes, they do want to spend the rest of their lives with each other, they also realise they have no idea how to put that into words. Perhaps English was never their strong suit at school. Poetry was for sappy love-addled geeks. But this person they'll be standing next to is probably the first they used those three little words with. How do you consolidate that into a speech which will need to be read or rehears? How do they express all they feel about each other to a room full of spectators?

Don't panic, we'll take you step-by-step through the process of writing your own vows; from something basic and heartfelt to an in-depth expression of your emotions. We will help you put it all into words. It's a simple matter of completing our questionnaire,and we'll extract what it is you want to say. Our wedding vow writing service starts from £25 and will ensure you have the perfect vow.

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